oh honey, i wish i had the answer you needed. i wish i had the answer we all needed. i wish a million times over that it wasn\'t like it is for us. just know i am here and i love you! ~ charlayne
Elissa,sounds like ur down in the pits..I\'m just coming out of that black hole.For Now!! It\'s such a roller coaster of emotions.Our kids couldn\'t of thought about what tragedy they\'d be leaving behind,because I doubt they\'d want to hurt any of us like this.We have to stop beating ourselves up & asking ourselves ?? we\'ll never get an answer to.Try & keep urself busy today.I know Cara is never far from your thoughts,but we just can\'t sit around & veg out..The good Lord must have other plans for us or we wouldn\'t be here.I\'ll check in w/u tonite when I get home..I\'m back to work after 11 days off.Stay Strong!! Love,Edith
I\'M SO SORRY ELISSA. IF ONLY WE KNEW WHY!!!!!!! YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO FEEL BAD AND MISS YOUR BABY GIRL. IT HASN\'T BEEN VERY LONG ELISSA, TRY NOT TO BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF. YOUR GOING TO HAVE TOUGH TIMES. CRY, SCREAM, SLEEP, DO WHATEVER YOU NEED TO DO TO GET YOU THROUGH. BUT JUST REMEMBER THIS TOO SHALL PASS, YOU WILL BE OKAY, YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. IT IS SO HARD WHEN YOUR IN THE DARK PLACE, I KNOW. BUT I ALSO KNOW I ALWAYS FEEL BETTER EVENTUALLY. SO HANG ON, DO THE BEST YOU CAN AND REMEMBER YOU WILL NOT FEEL THIS BAD FOREVER. YOU ARE AN AMAZING, WONDERFUL, KIND, GIVING PERSON, WHO IS LOVED BY MANY!!!!!!!! (((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) LOVE YOU, LISA
I don\'t know \"why\" either. I keep asking even though it really doesn\'t help...because I don\'t think we will ever know until it is our time. Wish I could give you a big hug and take away your pain. We are all here for you. A big hug! Love, lana
(((((Elissa))))) I wish it were all different and there was no reason to ask \"why?\". I am so very sorry that you are in such pain. May you find moments of peace. Love you.
Why? Is there really any explanation of why God chose to take our children from us that would somehow make us feel better. Unfortunately because I am selfish and want my life the way it was - full- complete... I cannot so there is no why just when. When we are together again...When I can hug my son again...When I can tell him how very proud of him I am...WHEN I CAN SAY I AM SORRY FOR ALL THE THINGS I TOOK FOR GRANTED AND FINALLY SHARE THE REAL ME WITH HIM. GOD BLESS.
IN FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE. Pam
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oh honey, i wish i had the answer you needed. i wish i had the answer we all needed. i wish a million times over that it wasn\'t like it is for us. just know i am here and i love you! ~ charlayne
Elissa,sounds like ur down in the pits..I\'m just coming out of that black hole.For Now!! It\'s such a roller coaster of emotions.Our kids couldn\'t of thought about what tragedy they\'d be leaving behind,because I doubt they\'d want to hurt any of us like this.We have to stop beating ourselves up & asking ourselves ?? we\'ll never get an answer to.Try & keep urself busy today.I know Cara is never far from your thoughts,but we just can\'t sit around & veg out..The good Lord must have other plans for us or we wouldn\'t be here.I\'ll check in w/u tonite when I get home..I\'m back to work after 11 days off.Stay Strong!! Love,Edith
I\'M SO SORRY ELISSA. IF ONLY WE KNEW WHY!!!!!!! YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO FEEL BAD AND MISS YOUR BABY GIRL. IT HASN\'T BEEN VERY LONG ELISSA, TRY NOT TO BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF. YOUR GOING TO HAVE TOUGH TIMES. CRY, SCREAM, SLEEP, DO WHATEVER YOU NEED TO DO TO GET YOU THROUGH. BUT JUST REMEMBER THIS TOO SHALL PASS, YOU WILL BE OKAY, YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. IT IS SO HARD WHEN YOUR IN THE DARK PLACE, I KNOW. BUT I ALSO KNOW I ALWAYS FEEL BETTER EVENTUALLY. SO HANG ON, DO THE BEST YOU CAN AND REMEMBER YOU WILL NOT FEEL THIS BAD FOREVER. YOU ARE AN AMAZING, WONDERFUL, KIND, GIVING PERSON, WHO IS LOVED BY MANY!!!!!!!! (((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) LOVE YOU, LISA
I don\'t know \"why\" either. I keep asking even though it really doesn\'t help...because I don\'t think we will ever know until it is our time. Wish I could give you a big hug and take away your pain. We are all here for you. A big hug! Love, lana
(((((Elissa))))) I wish it were all different and there was no reason to ask \"why?\". I am so very sorry that you are in such pain. May you find moments of peace. Love you.
Hey Elissa just want you to know I feel your pain and I am here with you. HUGS
Why? Is there really any explanation of why God chose to take our children from us that would somehow make us feel better. Unfortunately because I am selfish and want my life the way it was - full- complete... I cannot so there is no why just when. When we are together again...When I can hug my son again...When I can tell him how very proud of him I am...WHEN I CAN SAY I AM SORRY FOR ALL THE THINGS I TOOK FOR GRANTED AND FINALLY SHARE THE REAL ME WITH HIM. GOD BLESS.
IN FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE. Pam
We all wish we had that answer. Lots of hugs, jake\'s mom, kathy