Someday... someday I pray for Ben a wife... who will love him and recognize how special he is... Right now... I'm grateful he's not dating... but I want as mothers or in my case mothers in law... do for love and happiness for my child(ren). Ben tells me often its a package deal... if he ever meets someone if they don't like me and me them they're out the door... If she loves and is good to my grandchildren and Ben... she's in if she hates my guts...
Cara and Ben hurt each other a lot... It was JonsKat who said it best... how much it hurt her to see people being ugly to each other... always name calling threatening to leave each other and just taking each other for granted... We truly do never know what will happen to us... we should remember that in all our dealings... but we're human and that's not going to happen... but I hope we can try...
Just rambling... thinking and wishing...
Cara and Ben hurt each other a lot... It was JonsKat who said it best... how much it hurt her to see people being ugly to each other... always name calling threatening to leave each other and just taking each other for granted... We truly do never know what will happen to us... we should remember that in all our dealings... but we're human and that's not going to happen... but I hope we can try...
Just rambling... thinking and wishing...
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Elissa, ramble on... Ben sounds like a wonderful son-in-law and father. He definately gets points for letting you know that you will always be a part of HIS and your grandkids lives and forever family.
Hugs, Vera - Erick\'s mom
Elissa, Ben is one in a million. But that is also a tribute to you and Cara. So keep smiling today. Cara is very proud. Lots of hugs, Jake\'s mom, Kathy
hugggssssss Elissa. let\'s just hope her name ain\'t Scarlett cause i won\'t know what to do with you then!!!! in time Ben will find the woman that can step in and take the whole package...him, children, memories, and you. she is out there and you will love her too!!!
That\'s the wonderful thing about forgiveness-we all need it and we can all give it-I\'m sure when the time is right Cara will make sure her children are loved-and you know you are too!