I haven't written here in quite a while.  My life was so messed up - but now I at least have some hope of coming out OK.  I had several arge challenges this last year.  I no particular order, 1- my health, being a heart patient I have tried to keep my stress down and stay on the exercise and diet plan.  I've been pretty good, taking the meds, etc, but have been stressed.  2-e job, having lost the job, and then my wife insisting we move to Florida, relocate from California, with the kids, without a job.  It took me a full year to get a new job, but last month I was hired at a pretty decent company.  Making much less than I was, but more than an entry level job or salary.  3-The divorce. When I lost the job in Cal, we stopped the divorce and moved to Florida.  It is not an ideal situation as we basically live as roomates, except I have been paying all the bills.  Now that I'm working I've retained a laywer and will proceed with the divorce.  I found a condo at a greatly reduced price, and so we have agreed to sell this house and buy separate condos all as part of the divorce.  I am nervous that she will screw this up so that we can't sell the house or buy the condos.  If I can't buy I'll rent, but that would not be anywhere near as nice a deal for me or the kids.  But if she agrees, I'll be feeling much better.