I'm so tired of being the last one to know things, especially when it concerns me. I'm tired of being talked about and laughed about by so called family. I'm tired of people being jealous for no reason.
I just want someone to appreciate me and love me for me, not what they can get out of me.
I just want someone to appreciate me and love me for me, not what they can get out of me.
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I have a very critical family too. Being critical of someone creates an expectation, and then that expectation will create anxiety. People get jealous of you because they dont know you, or cant relate or understand you, there only way to deal with this is to be critical of you. Its actually a sign though that they do love you and want to be in your life, they just dont know how to show it properly. So its actually about them, not you. If you have abuse issues it can be difficult for people to love you for the real you, as the real you is likely to be hidden and protected by your scars. It would take a special person to see you for the real you, but it is possible:) Do you ever feel confused about where you come from etc and what the real you is? I say this because I\'ve struggled a lot with this. There are many books about the inner child theory, Ive read by John Bradshaw and Charles Whitfield. Maybe google or read them? They cleared up a lot of this kinda stuff for me.
Hello becca, how are you doing today? Of course, we are here for a cause.