Well I got though Tommys birthday, It wasn't so bad. his mother came gave me flowers. Tommy always had flowers fresh on my table. sometimes I have flowers all over the house, nice memory. I will never forget our first annivsary 12 vases of flowers everywhere. wrote in his legacy guestbook, spent time with his sisters.Had to tell one sister about herself, that was a sad event but I can't accept someone who steals and lies and so cruel with selfishness. best thing to do is Give it to GOD pray and walk away wiping the dust off my shoes.