SO i went to the docs today for the Urine test and of course it came back negative. Im still 4 day away from Af and I asked if they use teh early pregnancy detection test and the said no. So i was not shocked and i expected it. It would have been nice for  me tohave been surprised and have gotton a positive but oh well. That still does not mean that I am not pregnant. They took blood and I will know friday. The closer Af come to being hehe the less optimistic I am about being pregnant but that ok. I have peace now. I start the adoption classes next week so i have that to look forward to. I will still be a little sad but i know it will happen. So we will see. Good news i dont have to buy and pregnancy test this month. I keep them out of the house so im not tempted to test. If they are there im testing 5 days out and every day until af. Then im sad. SO we will wait. Im on the @ day wait now!!!