I met a nice guy - and I am scared silly.  I have not had a Date in over 7 years.  I have a couple of goals for the new year - my number one goal is to lose weight - and to get healthier.  Also, it would be nice to share life with someone nice - scared - scared - BUT - I did take the plunge and had the first Date.  He did ask me out again - we have not confirmed because of the weather.  I know it might sound pre-mature - but I am so scared about sex - I never had a problem with this in my life before - but it is different times and I am from the old school and do not know what the rules are.  I am going with my heart - I just do not want it broken (right away) it may turn me off for future dating - if this does not work out.  So I am going to wait on that.  Any suggestions.?  Thanks ree