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My husband, out of the blue, packed his stuff and left.Refuses to talk to me and says he isnt happy. Isnt it great that I stay through lies, abuse, etc but they just decide they are not happy and leave. Why isnt marriage a life contract anymore? Why wont the men I marry even try? I did everything for him and paid lots of things for him. He is made my daughter is back home and pregnant. Its not permanent, it will take time. I do not deserve this and its killing me. The pain is more than I can take. I just dont want to go on anymore. He swore he loved me and would never walk out on me like my last husband. Everyone says it isnt me that I am a good person and good to him. I have called all listed agencies for help with the mortgage. No one has funds or they cant take new applications. I am scared to death. We are the mortgage short on funds and I fear everyone being homeless. My 20 yr old daughter is pregnant and my 17 year old son is diabetic insulin dependent. The pain ans suffering is more than I can bare anymore. The hurt of it all and the fear of loosing our home.
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Hey sweetie
First of all, your husband is being a first class jerk. He isn\'t happy because his head is in his ass and he\'s busy chasing his boss when he should be home trying to help you over come your financial crisis.
I\'m sure he\'ll be back. They always come back. The question is, do you want him back??? He\'s acting like a child, leaving when the going gets rough.
If your daughter hasn\'t already, get her to apply for WIC. She\'ll get checks for milk,eggs, cheese, juice, cereal, etc the very same day she applies. Lots of free food. She\'ll need to have a doctor\'s note comfirming her pregnancy. Go to any Planned Parenthood. She\'ll also immediatley qualify for medicaid for her and tha baby (at least that is how it works in the states I have lived in.) Call Planned Parenthood. They can explain it to you.
Be sure to remove hubby\'s name (and income) from your food stamps so you\'ll get more money until the ass decides to come back.
hugs ; (
Jo
I\'m so sorry you are hurting and going through all of this. He sounds like a complete ass and you don\'t deserve any of this.
I am so sorry