I'm starting to feel the change that acceptance brings. Letting go little by little until I'm not holding onto the past anymore. Looking forward to the final healing process.
I wish you so many wonderful things in the days to come. You so deserve a good life for yourself and your children. You will have them - I just know that. It will be a rough road ahead - I know that too. Don\'t expect too much of yourself and in so little time. You\'ve loved this man for such a long time - that in itself is going to be hard to shake. It\'s a long and ugly journey - just do the best you can. Expect it to take time and journal as you have - every step of the way. We all love you and wish and pray for your strength and guidance to get you through - and you will get there. Big hugs and love.
Everytime he was mean to the kids and I, I was able to let go a little more. You start to wonder if you lived your life with blinders on. How did I not see this or that.
That\'s we strive for is taking it one day at a time. And each day, you are growing and getting better. It truly is all about time. And also, like you said, acceptance. That gets us moving in the right direction. We can\'t change them, we can only change ourselves. Hugs my friend.
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I wish you so many wonderful things in the days to come. You so deserve a good life for yourself and your children. You will have them - I just know that. It will be a rough road ahead - I know that too. Don\'t expect too much of yourself and in so little time. You\'ve loved this man for such a long time - that in itself is going to be hard to shake. It\'s a long and ugly journey - just do the best you can. Expect it to take time and journal as you have - every step of the way. We all love you and wish and pray for your strength and guidance to get you through - and you will get there. Big hugs and love.
Right here with you on that road, Chrissy. It seems to be happening in peaceful little moments, not big ones. Let\'s try not to miss any of them!
Everytime he was mean to the kids and I, I was able to let go a little more. You start to wonder if you lived your life with blinders on. How did I not see this or that.
Hugs to you my friend.
That\'s we strive for is taking it one day at a time. And each day, you are growing and getting better. It truly is all about time. And also, like you said, acceptance. That gets us moving in the right direction. We can\'t change them, we can only change ourselves. Hugs my friend.
Take each day as it comes. There is nothing you can not handle. You are strong and loving and kind. Your faith and dignity will see you through.
Hugs!