I'm having the weird sense of de'javu, however you spell it. I was having a good day today, for a Monday. Then during work, all hell broke loose. My ride took me back home after my first place to clean. Said I needed to talk to my boss and make him keep us working for longer than a couple hours. I start at one bank, then travel to another 10 minutes out of town. Right now, and for the past 4 1/2 months, I've been on foot and w/o a driver's license. I don't get it back until 6 months have passed. Only 6 weeks left to go, and my ride quits on me. He's been bringing me to work these past few months. But is getting agitated because our schedule has changed a bit. We stopped cleaning one location. So that takes away from our hours a bit. He gets upset for having to drive me to the other place, only to have to make another trip after 1 to 2 hours of work. I don't give him money for gas, because he refuses it. That's not my fault. He's also taking care of my brother's kids and they have to come along when my brother is working late. That's  really bugging him. Those are all choices he made, not me. I'm so grateful for the help, but the way he went about it was totally shitty. He could have told me all this last Friday, instead of waiting for today to spring it on me. Now that leaves me in a lurch. Trying to find a ride at the last minute and for the next few weeks. He used to live with my mom and she broke it off with him. I don't know why he helped me out and it's none of my business. But it just so happens that the last good day that I had on a Monday was June 22, 2009. The day I wrecked my car, for good. Ironic, isn't it. But I'm not laughing.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

sorry to hear that you are feeling this way...he has been taking you to work since you lost your car, he has done it because he cares for you, he has been doing it for a while now, in a few weeks you will get your license back, he has not been asking you for any gas money, you can hang on a little bit longer. I know you can....dont get upset.....if you must, ask him if he still wouldnt mind taking you to work until you get your license back in a couple of weeks...wondering, can you catch the bus to work , or have you got any other friends who would take you until you get your license back......getting upset is the worse you can do...it will work out......god has gotten you back and forth to work this long without a license, why would he stop now. : ) you just hang in their my sister and remain strong... : ).....got you in my prayers....god bless you...........love ya....hxhx
Pooh83
Pooh83

Our town is too small for public transportation. I am grateful for his help, I am. I just wished he could have told me that last Friday. That way I could have had a couple days to work on rides before Monday. My mom is bringing me for now. And she\'s not feeling well. I intend on asking some of my AA friends and see. Some of them work in Jennings and maybe I can ride with them either to work, or get a ride home. Maybe both. I know it\'ll work out. It just makes me a bit nervous having to literally take it day by day.