I got an e-mail from hubby this morning. He was served the divorce papers. He says it broke his heart. He told me I was playing underhanded dirty pool, and I had become the person I said I never wanted to be. On the contrary, I'm turning into the person I should have been years ago. I'm becoming self-sufficient, independent, and able to think for myself.  I like what I see when I look in the mirror. I just wonder if he can say the same thing about himself.