Well I just got back from my visit with my son. It was touch and go in the beginning, but eventually he calmed down and we had a fantastic time. Well the best that we could in a hopsital. I found out he likes a girl there. This is his first real crush. I am not too excited about it, but I am trying to be happy for him. I just dont want him to get hurt. Even the staff warned him about the girl saying it would never work because of her mood swings. The thing is she is one of those girls that likes someone one minute and then when someone better comes along she likes them too. I know this because she liked another kid there and then he left and now she likes my son. My sister and I explained that he needs to work on his stuff and that a girlfriend would make that harder. Especially one that has issues like my son. I am trying not to worry because I know that this at this time in his life could set him back. So when this girl came around he wanted us to leave. Yeah I guess we know where mom stands. LOL I know all part of being a teenager.It was nice to see him happy and socializing it is really making me think about how he would benifit from the emotional support classes. I believe from my own experience because I went to an alternative school that there is something for being said about fitting in. I know it helped my self esteeem and believe it would help my son's as well. I am not going to worn my positive post by posting much about the sperm donor except he has not visited, called or showed up.
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I\'m really glad things calmed down and you were able to have a nice visit. And, despite the disappointment, maybe it\'s best the \"sperm donor\" doesn\'t show up...might rile your son even more...still doesn\'t take the anger away, but, in time, your son will see it and will figure out how to not let it effect his life. Here\'s hoping when he comes home, he will forget about the girl in the hospital and concentrate on himself.
xxxx, you\'re making it thru!
I agree lynn the problem we run into is when he decides to show up. I am trying not to jump ahead and just know that it seems as soon as we move forward he comes back and pulls us backward.
I hope he forgets her too. I dont want to be mean but this really is not the time for him to start a relationship if that\'s what you can even call it at this age. lol He needs to get healthy first.