Well I should warn before I rant this may offend some. Yes another rant about the sperm donor.  He finally called today not to ask how our son was doing but to ask if I had the money I owe him.  To sum it up He does not pay his child support on time and last month I had nothing for my son for Christmas because of the trips back and forth to the hospital.  I called and a few times to beg him to pay supposedly his cell does not work right.  Anyway I am suppose to pay him back after he paid domestics.  I figure and I told him tonight that just think of all the times I waited for the money.  I did not plan this.  He called me three times tonight within an hour.  Again he has not called sense Tuesday has not asked how our son is so I gave him a piece of whats left of my mind.  I hope noone was there to hear it.  I am just so pissed that he is so selfish.  Oh I guess I should note that after talking to my lawyer today she told me to call the guardian ad lietum and explain to her what is going on and that his dad has not called.  I dont think it was a coincendence he called me tonight.  Oh and by the way sense he has given me the money his phone magically works now.  he is such an ass and I told him so.  I dont care I will admit in court I am tired of making things easy for him.  I am tired of him being such an ass and screwing up my son's life.  When I said he did not call He said you told me visits were Tuesday, Saturday and Sunday I almost forgot the coversation we had Tuesday night I was livid when I remembered and that is when I went balistic.  I told him that is a F in lie because I did tell you it was tuesday thursday saturday and sunday he denied it again Then I rememberd you f in asshole you said that I go down tonight and you would go down thursday and i said no its not an either or thing.     IIIIIIIIIIIIDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTOk family session with my son and I went ok.  When I left one of the nurse's asked if it went ok because he was so quiet  I said yes but he just wants to come home.  My son says that he just repeated himself to annoy me and although I do believe it started out like that there is no way he could of continued as he did to annoy me unless he is a sociopath.  Right?  I just think he does not remember the whole episode.