My ex needed a ride to drop his truck off to get fixed and as we neared his now home I realized and said to him \"I can not believe I am here driving you to your x-wife\'s house where you now live\" He blames me because I threw him out after him going to a family reunion she attended and I did not want us to go and told him the whole week before but he said she wont be there. drove up and there she was so i left and he ignored my text and phone calls all day and expected to come home to me? He says i threw a tantrum. I told him not it is because the silent treatment is emotionally abusive and it is passive aggressive behavior and I chose not to let you continue to do that if you didn\'t do that I would not have thrown you out. I for one can not deal with the silent treatment it is a passive way to hurt and manipulate the other person. I prefer communication and choose not to let him do that to me anymore. I really need to cut off my life from him, I need to face it this is totally toxic and not good for anyone involved. I wish I could get all his stuff out of here and be done. He just wont take everything because he will get horny and want an excuse to see me and try to get me in bed again. I have to stop this..he only treats me good for a while then it all goes out the window. Everything out the window!!
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I feel like shit today! Depression, anxiety, crazy thoughts, and a bad mood! He died and left me to do it all by myself and I am angry.
My ex needed a ride to drop his truck off to get fixed and as we neared his now home I realized and said to him \"I can not believe I am here driving you to your x-wife\'s house where you now live\" He blames me because I threw him out after him going to a family reunion she attended and I did not want us to go and told him the whole week before but he said she wont be there. drove up and there she was so i left and he ignored my text and phone calls all day and expected to come home to me? He says i threw a tantrum. I told him not it is because the silent treatment is emotionally abusive and it is passive aggressive behavior and I chose not to let you continue to do that if you didn\'t do that I would not have thrown you out. I for one can not deal with the silent treatment it is a passive way to hurt and manipulate the other person. I prefer communication and choose not to let him do that to me anymore. I really need to cut off my life from him, I need to face it this is totally toxic and not good for anyone involved. I wish I could get all his stuff out of here and be done. He just wont take everything because he will get horny and want an excuse to see me and try to get me in bed again. I have to stop this..he only treats me good for a while then it all goes out the window. Everything out the window!!