Hi, folks!  All is well, I guess.  A bit of anxiety last couple of days when I went down to Miami and watched a crew shoot Casely's new music video for his song "Emotional".  I flirted with the ladies, and there were a few that I feel like I could've had sex with if I pushed it a bit--they seemed to dig me physically and found me funny.  Or maybe they thought I was rich (LOL).  Welcome to America.  I didn't care about any of them--I didn't know them, except what I saw, which was pretty ghetto--and it's physically and emotionally dangerous to screw around, so I think I'm gonna hold out for somebody who I really enjoy talking with and gently pursue her in a dating situation.  It gets so frustrating to stick to the beat of my own drum sometimes, when American society encourages men to be sexually aggressive (and a lot of women in this day and age still expect it), and encourages women to be cold-hearted, money-grubbing and opportunistic, yet religious organizations preach absolute abstinence outside of marriage, which, for anyone with any libido, is not an option.  There's got to be a happy medium here.  I think I'm basically a sweet guy who also happens to be physical and enjoys a healthy libido. I'm trying to get sex and love together, in my own mind, with regard to one woman.  I've experienced love without sex (a lot of girls think of me as their big brother), and I've experienced sex without love (which was rather callous and empty), but I've yet to be able to fuse the two in my own mind with regard to one special significant other.  Anyone else grapple with this problem?