Frank talks between Mom and I continue...Dad pulled a very hurtful thing on her, last night (I wasn't in the room, but my sibling was), then proceeded to blow up and storm off...how did I get stuck w/such a panty-waist father?  I know he always wants to say what he likes, but he can't take it, when it gets dished back.  Y'know, between the jobless spot I'm in and Mom's pain and poor health, I'm about ready to do someone a "Sit in the corner and behave!" maneuver...not that it would do any good.  When it comes to my dad, everyone else is always against him/is full of doo-doo/stupid/etc.I saw a letter in Dear Abby last week, or so, about a spouse who was fed up w/her husband hating everything/everyone...I know my dad's in a world of hurt, due to G.M.'s failing eyesight and so on, but how is that my mom's fault?  She didn't ask for lupus, DISH or fibromyalgia...and it's all I can do to keep her from doing too much work, every day!  You'd think some husbands would be grateful and proud...not my dad. He has so many good qualities...why does he manure-spread the crappier points of his personality all over them, so they don't shine?  'Cause he feels like it...what a shitty excuse!  My mom told me this morning that she is so disgusted with him...I feel awful.  Being single for a reason, though, I can't offer any constructive help to someone who's married...I feel so heartbroken.  If only SOMETHING RIGHT would just happen, at last!