What to do?
I think I mentioned earlier that ex won a trip to cancun from some tv show. She is taking her bf with her. Good for her.
I would love to go but someone has to hold down the fort and take care of the dogs so I guess that person is me.
Ex has a job where she drives to someplace down near the coast, and takes care of two men with mental issues. She stays right down there the the same home for the weekend.
I try to stay out of their business as much as possible. I have all I can do to take care of my own and to keep running :) But Ex announced she is getting married. I could easily sabatage that if I wanted to but I am going to keep my mouth shut. It turns out that her bf has a drinking problem. While she is gone, he say he is going for a ride to get gas or a few groceries or something. When he comes back, there is the smell of alcohol when I walk by him. He had an accident over the weekend in which he broke the passenger side window and side view mirror and a month ago he went off the road and did alot more damage. Each time, his description of how it happened, didn't make any sense to me.
He is not suppose to be drinking because he has Hep C. When ex wasn't around, I told him some stories but unfortunately, he is still in the denial stage.
In a sense, I hate being here because I hate watching someone commit a slow suicide and I hate all the drama surrounding it.
Where there is a purpose in everything, I have to wonder what that purpose is as far as I'm concerned. In one sense, I like being around people but when they are self destructive, it bothers me. I feel like shaking some sense into them but then I think it's none of my business. Ex was pissed at the second accident he had so he will probably stay closer to home from now on. He won't drink around me. So we'll see.
That's my drama for the day lol!
Hope you all have a great day!
I would love to go but someone has to hold down the fort and take care of the dogs so I guess that person is me.
Ex has a job where she drives to someplace down near the coast, and takes care of two men with mental issues. She stays right down there the the same home for the weekend.
I try to stay out of their business as much as possible. I have all I can do to take care of my own and to keep running :) But Ex announced she is getting married. I could easily sabatage that if I wanted to but I am going to keep my mouth shut. It turns out that her bf has a drinking problem. While she is gone, he say he is going for a ride to get gas or a few groceries or something. When he comes back, there is the smell of alcohol when I walk by him. He had an accident over the weekend in which he broke the passenger side window and side view mirror and a month ago he went off the road and did alot more damage. Each time, his description of how it happened, didn't make any sense to me.
He is not suppose to be drinking because he has Hep C. When ex wasn't around, I told him some stories but unfortunately, he is still in the denial stage.
In a sense, I hate being here because I hate watching someone commit a slow suicide and I hate all the drama surrounding it.
Where there is a purpose in everything, I have to wonder what that purpose is as far as I'm concerned. In one sense, I like being around people but when they are self destructive, it bothers me. I feel like shaking some sense into them but then I think it's none of my business. Ex was pissed at the second accident he had so he will probably stay closer to home from now on. He won't drink around me. So we'll see.
That's my drama for the day lol!
Hope you all have a great day!
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That whole living arrangement is just weird to me. Get the hell out of there, or better yet kick them out. You don\'t need to be her babysitter for crying out loud - she\'s marrying someone else!!! Get out of there buddy... You need to distance yourself.
Amen, KR! Some AlAnon meetings would really be helpful. Please consider it, Bob. ~ Karen
sounds like a messy situation - I have been in enough of them, I should know lol. The only thing you need to worry about is you - if they do get married - so be it. As long as you are ok with the way things are going in your life, then she will have to deal with those consequences. Hugs
For some reason I thought they moved out.