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The wife is so pissed over me telling her lawyer about her bf that she has been verbally abusing me to the max today, right up until the time she left for work. I think even her bf was a little surprised at how abusive she got!
I will warn her that if she keeps it up, I will hire a lawyer and take the house. I haven't signed anything yet so there is still time to change my mind.
Her own sister has offered me a place to stay if it gets to be more then I can tolerate. Problem is it's 2 houses down and still too close.
She is losing control of me and is fighting back the only way she knows how. She needs to have a wake up call.
So wify just called me up and told me how much I hurt her by mentioning her porcelain collection and I tried very hard not to instigate anymore by saying I was just answering the lawyer's question pertaining to assets. Wify doesn't know what she got herself into! She ended the conversation by telling me that when I go to bed at night, I had better keep one eye open, then she hung up. So, if you don't see me here tomorrow, you will know why. I don't know if I should be afraid or not cos she's pretty crazy at the moment.
Thanks for reading this and listening to me vent!
I will warn her that if she keeps it up, I will hire a lawyer and take the house. I haven't signed anything yet so there is still time to change my mind.
Her own sister has offered me a place to stay if it gets to be more then I can tolerate. Problem is it's 2 houses down and still too close.
She is losing control of me and is fighting back the only way she knows how. She needs to have a wake up call.
So wify just called me up and told me how much I hurt her by mentioning her porcelain collection and I tried very hard not to instigate anymore by saying I was just answering the lawyer's question pertaining to assets. Wify doesn't know what she got herself into! She ended the conversation by telling me that when I go to bed at night, I had better keep one eye open, then she hung up. So, if you don't see me here tomorrow, you will know why. I don't know if I should be afraid or not cos she's pretty crazy at the moment.
Thanks for reading this and listening to me vent!
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A threat.. Not good. You might want to ask for an order of protection and or notify her attorney. He may be able to talk sense into her.
Order of protection states that she can not touch you, verbally or sexually abuse you and whatever you want to add.
If you are afraid because she is not in her right mind, make a report with the police. At the very least, track the phone call times and write down what she said. Recording the call may not be legal. In my state it is illegal unless the person being recorded has full knowledge and gives verbal and or written consent.
Bob, she is going to make this harder as the days go on.. I am so sorry. big hugs to you.
Maybe she should go to her sisters for awhile to cool off.
Yeah...start recording your conversations...
Oh yes,,,record away!
order of protection would be hard to get if living in the same house.. or did i miss something.. agree.. two houses down is way too close for either of you.. IMO.. i know i could not do that.. tough call either way.. check in your state to see if recorded messages are legal in court.. Do you have children at home .. (sorry i might have missed that) ... be safe...stay strong
Check with an atty. about recording conversations. Also you can look on line and see if your state is one that will let you record and not tell her.
Only you will know if she is serious or just having a meltdown. I would report her to the police. It\'s better to be safe than sorry later.
MsViv is right....you needed to get your OWN lawyer, this woman has NO right to YOUR house, she brought another MAN in there! She has verbally abused you and now she has threatened your life. GET AN ORDER OF PROTECTION and get her OUT.
You should report any type of threat so it is on record. Also agree about the recording--check on this. Some states allow it, some don\'t. If it is your house, get a civil protection order and boot her cheating ass to the curb.
Like most cheaters, she\'s mad because you are not going along with her \"reality\" and she is understanding that there is a financial fall out to cheating. Oh well, too bad for her.
Stay calm. Don\'t live with the sister--you don\'t really know where her loyalties are.
All the above in spades! She is a sicko!
It\'s getting messy- is she trying to scare you off. Maybe her sister is in on it too? All she has to do is change the locks and lie to get a protection order against you/ I\'d be cautious about recording without a go ahead from cops or attorney. Keeping a record of the calls is a good thing.
So sorry for all the hassles. Have you found alawyer yet??
Bigs hugs-stay strong!
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I would get a lawyer, and call the police about the threat she gave to you, for an order of protection. I think it some states it is free for the order of protection if it is a domestic thing. If you can not afford it you can ask for help at a domestic abuse shelter for the order of protection. Keep on doing what you have to do, and I will be praying for you. I miss you a lot!!
She\'s pissed cuz things aren\'t going her way and this is all she has...threatening you. I say let her act this way and as you said, go ahead and get a lawyer. Do what you have to do. You tried to place nice but if she wants to go there, then you can go there. Did you ever meet and get a free consultation with a lawyer??
Just to at least see what\'s up in comparison to what you\'re dealing with right now with her lawyer??
Yes! You all have her pretty well figured out. When things don\'t go her way or when I refuse to play her game, she reacts with anger or, crying, or both!
Thanks!
I would start taking pictures of things to make sure things don\'t disappear! She just sounds vindictive and selfish!!