update
So my wife's bf got fired from his job down in coneticut and my wife, feeling sorry for him is moving him in with us!!!!!
Right now, I just want to check out of the hotel of life!!
Looking at the positive in this. His $450 unemplyment check will be a huge contribution to the household expenses allowing me to save more money! :)
So maybe it's not so bad after all.
Right now, I just want to check out of the hotel of life!!
Looking at the positive in this. His $450 unemplyment check will be a huge contribution to the household expenses allowing me to save more money! :)
So maybe it's not so bad after all.
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Bob, your wife is beyond cruel, there are no words for her behavior. You shouldn\'t have to leave but for your own peace and sanity, is there a friend or relative you can move in with? If the house is in your name also, can she legally get away with that?
leather I feel this is my house to so I have no intention of leaving. I will have to try to get along for the time being. Thanks
Maybe you can scare him so he wont move in.What kind of so called man would move in under these circumstances?
Are you freaking kidding me? Your wife has some balls man! Well, if there is anything positive to take from this, I suppose you already said it. His unemployment check will help you save money a lot faster. Way to look for the positive Bob! :)
TY trying. My AA sponser told me a long time ago, that every negative has a corresponding positive, we might not see it right away.
I am sick of her stupid bitchy, idoitic behavior. You do not deserve this treatment! You are to nice of a guy for her to play with your emotions! That bitch has some major psychological issues she needs to take care of. Big Hugs Go Out To You!!!
The nerve of that woman. I cant believe it. Maybe you will end up liking him thats all I can hope for. You and he can go out together and leave her out of it all!
You are a saint my friend!
hugsssssssss
PS whats the sleeping arrangements going to be? Does he get first go at the bathroom? its so weird! He doesnt sound very steady-is he a flake?
I am not sure I could do it BUT I do know of someone that has. And to be honest it worked for them. In fact your whole situation ran along the same theme of wife and boyfriend and then BF moving in. Only difference was this person I know had children.
I wish you the best with this Bob. Who can judge unless you walk in the man\'s shoes!
Whoa - IMO your ex is not thinking straight, and is really really inconsiderate towards you. Not cool.
I\'m also surprised the BF would agree to that. Doesn\'t sound like a very independent or self sufficient person. He may have very low self esteem, and possibly other issues as well?
Bob - well done looking at the positive! You are a strong person indeed!
I guess thinking about it purely in a financial sense is probably the best way to view it for now. I view my co-parenting relationship with my ex as a business relationship - somehow that helps me to stay calm and factual with it.
Don\'t give up half your house. Stay put. I think in some states there is an \"abandonment\" thing that can be used by lawyers in the divorce case? Check on that before you would ever consider moving out. Make sure this is not being pushed covertly by your ex - trying to make you uncomfortable in your home.
Best of luck Bob!
Thankyou Arem, those are words of wisdom for sure. My first inclination was to move out but then I thought, well, this is my house and I am staying put!
Thanks Joyce, I had never heard of it before, I don\'t think anyway but we will see,
Thankyou dinah and Brendy. Wife has no empathy for me for sure.
OMG Bob! I am starting to wonder if you are insane, lol! Seriously though, you are in such a crazy situation. Sending you tons of strength, God knows you\'ll need it! ((((HUGS))))