Well I am here at work today.Been here since 5 a.m.Long day ahead of me....
Last night my husband finally broke down.It took him drinking a few beers,and an argument between the two of us(I wont go into detail about that right now)but he actually cried.And he told me that he tries to keep his feelings buried inside.Thats how he is,always has been.I am the weak one and he is not.I told him that I need to know he is hurting too.I really believe it will help me move on.We had a nice talk.I didnt want to see him cry but now I know that this hurts him and he is grieving.He misses our baby..And I also found out that its hard for him to be around babies or to see pregnant women too.That all I wanted, was to know that he does have feelings..
Some other issues were brought up during our argument so now we have to work on those...Seems like its always something....
Last night my husband finally broke down.It took him drinking a few beers,and an argument between the two of us(I wont go into detail about that right now)but he actually cried.And he told me that he tries to keep his feelings buried inside.Thats how he is,always has been.I am the weak one and he is not.I told him that I need to know he is hurting too.I really believe it will help me move on.We had a nice talk.I didnt want to see him cry but now I know that this hurts him and he is grieving.He misses our baby..And I also found out that its hard for him to be around babies or to see pregnant women too.That all I wanted, was to know that he does have feelings..
Some other issues were brought up during our argument so now we have to work on those...Seems like its always something....
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Communication is GREAT! Sounds like you guys are on the right track. I am happy for you:))
Hey tracy,well the good thing is he has begun to communicate his hurt and pain to you,I hope it continues,Good luck my friend,Hugs,Kim
I know as women we tend to be a bit more sensitive. It\'s good that your husband was able to share his feelings with you. I hope this made you feel a bit better. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thats great, sharing your feelings will help a lot. It has me. I really notice pregnant women now or little babies in carriers. Sometimes I think we all think a like..