I had a good time last night.Hubby and I went eat out and came home -- alone,which hardly ever happens.
This morning I started out ok..went to the store while he stayed in bed watching tv.How do you compete with a TV?Does any other women have to do this?Anyway we got ready to go to my moms for lunch and I remembered the dream I had....I had a baby, a beautiful baby girl....Do the reminders ever go away?And of all days my 7 month pregnant sister in law was at my moms for lunch too.I had to see her all day...God forgive me for feeling this way...i am happy for her and my brother,I really am.Its just so hard to see her right now.
And my husband doesnt help...All he talks about is her baby and her big belly....UGHHHH!!!!! I could just scream.Sometimes I wonder if he even wants a baby......
This morning I started out ok..went to the store while he stayed in bed watching tv.How do you compete with a TV?Does any other women have to do this?Anyway we got ready to go to my moms for lunch and I remembered the dream I had....I had a baby, a beautiful baby girl....Do the reminders ever go away?And of all days my 7 month pregnant sister in law was at my moms for lunch too.I had to see her all day...God forgive me for feeling this way...i am happy for her and my brother,I really am.Its just so hard to see her right now.
And my husband doesnt help...All he talks about is her baby and her big belly....UGHHHH!!!!! I could just scream.Sometimes I wonder if he even wants a baby......
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I don\'t think any woman can compete with tv or video games.It is hard to see any other woman pregnant.It brings back memories that we were almost there.It is okay to feel the way you do.You are in the process of trying to heal.As for your husband he is dealing in his own way.My husband wants another baby,but he won\'t tslk about it with me;or talk about our son.The memories never go away;niether does the feeling of being jealous of other pregnant women.It will get better.I promise you that much.Feel better,and remember to stay positive.
Hi Tracy unplug the video games from the television and tell hin he is married and needs to spend quality time with his wife,yeah I can see why you\'d be upset with only hearing about her and how big her belly is,Tracy hun hang in there things will all work out for you and know I am here for you,Hugs Hun,Kim
It sounds like your husband has a tin ear when it comes to your feelings. Have you told him how difficult it is for you to hear him talk about your sister\'s baby; how sad it makes you feel? I suggest you simply say, [his name, in order to make sure you have his attention] then look him in the eyes and tell him as sincerely as you can, \"it makes me so sad, I can barely stand it, when you talk about my sister\'s baby\". If he knows how sad it makes you feel, I\'m inclined to think he\'ll stop talking about it.
It sounds like the two of you need to sit down and talk face-to-face. Turn off the TV and express your feelings. If we don\'t actually say what we\'re thinking, they won\'t know. Unfortunately men can\'t read minds.