i have cried everyday since i found out that i have "pcos". my husband is very upset about it too, sometimes i feel that i have ot try and be strong for both of us, but right now it is to much to handle. evr since i was a little girl i have always had the feeling that i would never have any kids of my own, nd finding out that it most likely true has just sent me in a hole, i don't what to do i'm scared and i just want to lay down and never get up. it feels pointless for me to be here, because weren't we put here to populate and now i find out that i can't.
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Please don\'t feel like that. I know it is hard but there are options out there! Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions or want to vent!
Remember that there is always a reason why you are here. All of us have dreams and hopes. I have learned that sometimes the way we planned for our lives is not the way god has it planned. That doesn\'t mean you have to just accept anything for face value without trying to achieve your dreams of becoming a mom. You may just have to achieve it in another way, my situation is very different. My husband had a vasectomy 8 yrs ago. We changed our minds. He had it reversed and then I was diagnosed with cancer. Due to the radiation I have alot of scar tissue and was told that it would hender any chances of getting pregnant again because it is on my fallopian tubes. Basically closing them off to any function. I have had 2 surgeries already with no success. I found a specialist in Georgia, and I am praying that this will work. I keep praying everyday \"God if it\'s your will\" and then I was told that it\'s not gods will for any of us to suffer, and that he doesn\'t give us more that what we can handle. I tell myself that every day. Especially when all of my girlfriends are having babies, my best friend had a beautiful baby girl on my birthday 2 wks ago. Talk about feeling like being slapped. And I just smile and go on when I am crying inside. Do all the research you can, get educated, get a support group that you can talk to and cry with. And talk with your husband openly and honestly. You need him as much as he needs you to be strong. Feel free to email anytime.