This will be a quick entry. 
I'm no longer going to keep track of how many days it's been since D-Day. I've started IC, and my counsellor, who went through almost the exact situation I'm going through, down to going to the same school I go to, said that it's not a good idea to dwell on it. There is a difference between acknowledging that I have a pet sin, and that that sin is Cheating, versus my thinking of myself as a "cheater." I am not a cheater. That's not all I am. I cheated. I sinned. And it's in the past. I am living now for the purpose of never having it happen again. I need to think of myself of something much more than that, to see myself as more. 
GF's family is here. All seems to be going well. Her mum is not judging us, because she says it's our relationship, our choices, and everyone makes mistakes. 
"My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in Christ my savior"