Please tell me if im being completely stupid and over reacting. ok i am an insecure person i hate the way i look. my partner of 2 years knows this. im a size 12-14 and have lumps and bumps i wish i hadnt. yet when we are out like last night for instance he was saying how fit and hot the bar staff were in the pub/retaurant. they were all skinny and really pretty. and it made me feel horrible, and actually upset me i just got up and went to the toilet, i felt like crying. but he keeps making comments on things like this and its getting me down. then we went to bed i cuddled up to him and i was feeling horny yet he pushes me away. yet again i go to bed with no sex. and pissed off. please give me your views am i over reacting