8:53 pmWow! I must be totally screwed up. Why do I always start fights? That is probably why my ex used to beat me up, because I can't stop. I just keep going. If I want something I make sure I am going to get it. But lately I don't get anything I want and that just makes me so mad and I feel like I can't stop until I get it. That is probably why my ex also left. It is all my fault. My expectations are too high. I expected him to give his all, just like I did. And when he didn't I tried to make him do it. But I couldn't make him do it. And then he realized he could just leave. I guess it was all my fault that it didn't work. It was probably also really my fault that he beat me up. I am sure he is better off without me. No wonder why he is so happy now, he doesn't have to deal with me. The bitch of the world.
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well, I\'m pretty sure nothing is all your fault. But I understand the negative feelings based on where you\'re at. Understand that this will pass. If there are things you need to work on, work on them though. This is a time for growth and learning as well as healing.
A, you know better. You know that God has a plan for your life and abuse in any form is not a part of His plan. Stay strong, you can do this. The x is just that, the x. So leave him there and let God have him. I know it isn\'t easy, but it can be done. Special prayers for you tonight.
Don\'t beat yourself up~! Your not a bad person. At least you can admit your faults. They say that admitting your faults is the begining of change. You won\'t change if you don\'t see the need for change. You will come out of this a better person where your ex still needs to face his issues. He is running from them while you are facing them and dealing with them. I can already see you are changing into an even more beautiful person thru all this~! Keep up the good work.. Scripture: God makes \"Beauty from Ashes\" Isaiah 61:3 http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=29&chapter=61&verse=3&version=31&context=verse