10:30 amToday has been a horribly awful day. All I have been doing is fighting with my exabout money. He is so irresponsible. He has nothing that he has to focus on other than himself. While I am considering filing for bankruptcy because I can't pay my bills (most of it is because he didn't pay any taxes all year and so I had to fork out about 7000 dollars to send to the IRS) he is farting around doing his own thing. "I want to finish school." is what he says. That is fine, but there are other things then that you need to sacrifice, not you family or your son. What about your stupid band that has gone nowhere. "It is going to be bringing in alot of money when we finish the album and it starts getting distributed." That is what every bands dream is. Does it happen for every band? NO! I have been trying to get him to just be responsible on his own. If he doesn't then I will have the courts remind him that he has a son and a responsibility. If we were still together, our son would have such a carefree happy life for a 7 year old. But now my ex has a carefree happy life for a 24 year old. But our son has a rough life. What is wrong with this picture? I told him that I am going to get Child Support Enforcement involved and they will have a lawyer for our son so that he can get what he needs. I told him that if he can just be responsible without getting the courts involved I won't do it. But he has to do it himself. I doubt that he will.I just wish that I could financially do it on my own so I wouldn't have to have anything to do with him at all.