10:37 amWow! What a change from yesterday. I am so tired of the emotional roller coaster that I have been on with my husband. I sent him a message yesterday afternoon telling him to not contact me unless it is to say that he wants to get back together and be a family. He called me 3 times last night and left a message once that said he was think of us (Me and our son) and wanted to see how our day was and hope we have a good night. I obviously did not answer the phone. Then he called twice this morning. I also did not answer the phone. He didn't leave a message either. I have come to realize that I am just like an old pair of shoes. When he starts feeling uncomfortable in the shoes he is in, he tries to put me back on. That is not what I am here for. That is why I am screening my phone calls and not talking to him. He is only contacting me because it is his comfort zone. Well, guess what! I have been out of my comfort zone for the last year and I am not going to just be his temporary fix.
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Let him experience some of the emotional rollercoaster too. Perhaps that will have a lasting impact on his heart to be serious with his wife not play anymore games with you. He needs to take your marriage seriously, like you are. You always impress me Andrea with the good choices you keep making for your life. Keep up the good work :) Let us know how things continue to go. We\'re here for you~! ~E