11:20 amI spoke with my husband on the phone again last night and the issue of us moving back in together came up again. He is thinking about selling his house and moving in with me. I told him that he is welcome, as long as there is a marriage commitment along with it. I told him that it would definitely help us both financially. He could work part time, and do school full time. Plus it would help alot with our son. I have to do everything on my own. Get him bathed, up and ready for school. Help him with his homework. Plus he has to be at my work with me for an hour before school even starts, so that makes it a long day for him. Anyway, We discussed the benefits of us moving back together and how that would be great, but I told him that is not good enough for us to get back together. I told him that there needs to be a commitment. That we have to be getting back together because we are going to stay married. That it is because he loves me and wants to be with me. He understood that and he really didn't have much to say about it. I told him that he has alot to think about and he agreed with me. He is really trying to figure things out for himself. I can't do that for him. I told him what my opinion is and how I feel about the situation and now he is the one who has to decide what he is going to do with this information.
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Your doing a great job taking it slow and one step/day at a time. I think you should keep the xtra house and rent in for more income, plus if things fall apart there will always be a place to retreat too if needed. But, with counceling, a commitment to each other and a humble heart of reconciliation on your husbands part...you can have your marriage again~!! Keep up the good work Andrea.... I\'m so proud of you~! :)