9:55 amMy husband and I are starting to get along better. On Friday, he called and asked if I could bring our son over to his house to spend the night and after I thought about it for a while, I realized that I am so hurt by the infedelity that he brought into OUR house that I can not step foot in there again. We bought the house together and we lived there together for 5 1/2 years. Even though there were some really bad memories there, I had some really good memories. But now, I just have the picture in my head of that women in my bed with him, having sex with him, and pretending to be his wife, in the home that was mine with him. I am hoping that he is starting to get over her and her craziness. Last night he called me right before I was getting ready to go to bed. He wanted to talk for a while. So he talked to our son and to me a few times. And one thing that was weird is that he made it a point to say, "Our house." I thought that was interesting. We talked for about an hour and had a really nice conversation. I just hope that things will get better everyday. Last week he asked for me and our son to move back into his house with him. I told him no and that he should move in with me. First, because his exgirlfriend has no idea where I live. Secondly, I will not go into his house again. That would be like torture. I am not sure what is going to happen with that. Hopefully he decides to move in with me. He oculd work from home and it is not that far from his school either. It would sure save us both alot of money.
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This is amazing that you guys are finally getting the chance to work things out~! God is good~! Now with love, and taking it one day at a time, you can both heal the wounds that have taken place. True healing can only happen when there is true forgiveness. God will guide you throughout the day as you seek Him new every morning. Blessed wishes, ~E