My husband told me last night that he doesn't want to get back together. I am tired of all the ups and downs. He also told me that he wants us to be best friends. And I just told him that if we are to move forward to be together again, we would need to be best friends anyway. It needs sto be that before anything else. He told me that he sent an email to his ex girlfriend today saying that she needs to not move out here. She called him shortly after to talk to him about it and she fought him on it. He told her that it would be very disrespectful to him if she were to do that thinking that they were going to be together. She still insisted that she move out here and that he just won't ever see her. The only reason that she was going to move out was because of him. After they got off the phone, her 13 year old daughter called him and told him not to do this to her mom, because she has been through too much. My husband explained a few more things to her about why she should not come, and then the conversation was over. Well, my husband thinks that she had her daughter call to make him feel bad. What type of mother is going to get her 13 year old daughter involved in this, and what kind of stuff is she teaching her about realtionships and how to treat others? Anyway, my husband is really upset that she is still planning on coming and he is considering having a restraining order put on her. I know for a fact that I will be putting a restraining order on her so that she will have to stay away from me and our son. I told my husband that she should just move here then he will see how crazy she is, and it will probably bring us closer together. It already has and she doesn't even realize it. He has not really brought me up, because he is afraid that she will come after me.Anyway, my mother in law thought that it was interesting that he called me when they got in a fight instead of calling his mom or his best guy friends. It told her that he still really loves me and wants me to be a part of his life. I know that eventually we are going to be together again, I just don't know when. God's time. But I have been praying over him spiritually and praying that God will keep us protected from the demons.I will keep you all up to date on what is going on.