10:30 amWow! A lot of things came to light this weekend. I actually had a small conversation with my husbands mistress and it appears to me that she is just trying to look good, or that she just cares about what my husband thinks. She said that she is going to disappear from my husbands life, yet she is still there. I told him it is her or me. And when I told him that he said "no no no"! I don't undersatnd why he still needs to have her there. I am probably going to be selling my business and I will be leaving town. Since he hasn't gotten rid of her, then I made the decision for him. I am gone. As far as he's concerned, he still wants to see if things can work, but as far as I am concerned his mistress is still around, so that is his decision. I am just so mad and hurt and confused that I can't even talk about it anymore.
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Your business has been very sucessful. I know runnung away from problems is easy & it helps becuase thats what I do. But, it is not always the best thing to do. They always say to not make major decisions in life while you are emotional. I think that is still good advice... to wait until the feelings have simmered down. A councilor is a good source to talk to right now for advice and support. Please continue to express yourself here too. We are all here for you...I hope you know that. ttyl ~E