100 pmWow, something really weird just happened. I have not been answering my stbx phone calls and he just called me twice today. The first time I didn't answer and he left a message. The message just said that he really missed me and our son and was thinking about us alot. Then he called right back and I answered it (only because I heard the message he left and I was curious as to where this was going). Anyway, he was crying and he said that he has gotten himself into a mess and now he doesn't know what to do. He has to go pick this girl up from the airport now, and he doesn't want to. He sometimes thinks about working things out with me. I told him that now that this girl is in the picture, there is not really a chance of that happening. Then he told me he really likes this girl and she likes him. He is just so confused and doesn't really know what he wants right now anyway. I hope and pray that God's hand will be in this situation. I still want him to come back and I do believe that God is working in this situation to turn it back around.

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I too keep waiting for my stbx to turn our situation around. Some days it seems like there is no hope...other days (like the last few) keep me going and believing that there is a chance. Unfortunately I have to leave it up to her.

Good luck - the waiting to see what the outcome will be sucks.
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Amen~!
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Pray about it and time will tell -- god is dealing with him just set back and do what god would do -- that is hard but most of the time we don\'t do what god would do. We want to fix it but we can\'t fix other people.. god except you as you are -- its hard and its hard for me but don\'t be the judge -- I am still waiting on my wife to come back -- god has been dealing with me and her -- it is painful -- senting a hug --love always will win --