I woke up this morning in a good mood. i actually think that God woke me again. I was up really early and could not fall back asleep. I think it was God's way of telling me to talk to Him. So I prayed and got up and showered. I guess that might be why I feel pretty good today.
I still miss my husband alot. I just have to wait for God's timing. I am not going to call my husband for a while. That doesn't mean that I don't want him to call me and that I don't want to talk to him. It just means that I am going to give him his space. I want him to miss me like I miss him. I just wish that I could have some confirmation that what I am doing is the right thing. I wonder if giving him his space and not calling him is pushing him further away, or if it is making him wonder what I am doing and thinking. What do you all think? Am I hurting my chances of working things out with my husband or helping my chances?
I still miss my husband alot. I just have to wait for God's timing. I am not going to call my husband for a while. That doesn't mean that I don't want him to call me and that I don't want to talk to him. It just means that I am going to give him his space. I want him to miss me like I miss him. I just wish that I could have some confirmation that what I am doing is the right thing. I wonder if giving him his space and not calling him is pushing him further away, or if it is making him wonder what I am doing and thinking. What do you all think? Am I hurting my chances of working things out with my husband or helping my chances?
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Its not pushing him further away, it will most likely get him to think. I finally gave up and started proceedings, now my stbx won\'t quit with the desperation. Unfortuneately I had already given up and decided not to go back. But it is the time, when you appear all happy and carefree that they really seem to think somethings up. Wouldn\'t have believed it, therapist said it was fairly common even.
I hope he realizes quickly, but that usually doesn\'t happen. Wait on the Lord. Ask Him to give you the wisdom to do His will.
You are doing the right thing. You are not pushing him away. He will wonder what is going on. You are right to give him his space. Hang tight. (: