This weekend was pretty good. I did see my husband on Friday night and it seemed that he wanted to see me too, not just our son. He complimented my hair and makeup and said that I looked very pretty. The funny thing is I wasn't even waring any makeup.:0) That made me feel really good about myself. He did tell me that he misses me and that he has been thinking about me. I could kind of get that vibe from him through phone conversations, but I don't want to get my hopes up. Plus, I am not sure if he was just saying those things hoping that he could just get some.
We had a wonderful time together and we almost seemed like husband and wife again. He stayed the night since we talked until 2:30 am and he had to work the next morning. I told him that he could stay and I would just get him up when I had to leave. He kept apologizing for hurting me and for thing he said that hurt. And another thing that really confused me that I took as good that he said was that he has left the door open to date other women, but in the back of his mind he thinks, "maybe this relationship will help me love Andrea the right way." Is that weird or good. I think it is good, since I am the only relationship that he ever had and never had the chance to experience or learn about relationships.
I really would like some feed back from my friends. Let me know what you think.
We had a wonderful time together and we almost seemed like husband and wife again. He stayed the night since we talked until 2:30 am and he had to work the next morning. I told him that he could stay and I would just get him up when I had to leave. He kept apologizing for hurting me and for thing he said that hurt. And another thing that really confused me that I took as good that he said was that he has left the door open to date other women, but in the back of his mind he thinks, "maybe this relationship will help me love Andrea the right way." Is that weird or good. I think it is good, since I am the only relationship that he ever had and never had the chance to experience or learn about relationships.
I really would like some feed back from my friends. Let me know what you think.
Replies
I get what ur saying because I heard the same thing from my husband. When he comes around he comments me and hugs me and kisses me. It feels so good to be in his arms and to feel the love that he does have for me but THEN he leaves and he leaves me confused. I don\'t understand how he can just walk away and leave me. Doesn\'t he worry that I might find someone else and could lose me for good? Then it clicks if he did love me then he couldn\'t walk away so easily. So I try not to get my hope up too high either. I know that I r wishing for the best because u miss him but also try to move on so that if it doesn\'t work out it won\'t hurt as much. I wish u the best. Take Care!
I know you love him. You must remember why you are apart though. Until that is resolved, you are not going to get anywhere. You both are uncertain, and feeling regret. That is normal. Make the effort to get into counseling. I, if I had the chance would do the SBT, Soloution-Based Brief Therapy. It is short, brings results, and does not deal with the past, only the here and now and the future. Good luck. I am praying for you.