So far today I am feeling ok. It is friday and I know that I will get some rest this weekend. My sisters fiance' is coming into town from the middle east for 3 weeks so I am looking forward to visiting with him.
My husband was off doing his own thing last night. He went to a concert. He says he doesn't have much money or time to even call our son, but he sure has the money to purchase a concert ticket and time to drive 1 1/2 hours out of time for a 4 hour concert. I would be suprised if he even went home last night. I am going to pretend to him that I don't care that he went to a concert. One thing he didn't like about me is the way I show affection. He thought I was smothering him. So I am trying to not be smothering and give him his space. I know that he enjoys going to things like that, so do I. I just wish that he would want me to do those things with him.
On a good note, today my son's school is having an awards assembly and he is get an award that he earned this semester. I am very proud of him since he had so many problems this yera with his daddy leaving and everything.
Thanks everyone at DS for your support and prayers.
My husband was off doing his own thing last night. He went to a concert. He says he doesn't have much money or time to even call our son, but he sure has the money to purchase a concert ticket and time to drive 1 1/2 hours out of time for a 4 hour concert. I would be suprised if he even went home last night. I am going to pretend to him that I don't care that he went to a concert. One thing he didn't like about me is the way I show affection. He thought I was smothering him. So I am trying to not be smothering and give him his space. I know that he enjoys going to things like that, so do I. I just wish that he would want me to do those things with him.
On a good note, today my son's school is having an awards assembly and he is get an award that he earned this semester. I am very proud of him since he had so many problems this yera with his daddy leaving and everything.
Thanks everyone at DS for your support and prayers.
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U should not take that from him. He just comes around when he feels like it. What about u? U need to go out to. Why doesn\'t he think about that? That\'s not fair that he gets to run around and u r waiting for him at home. U should not have to hide ur affection. If he doesn\'t appreciate it then that\'s on him. HE needs to show u the same affection that u give him. Why should u have to hide it just so that he can be comfortable? Good for ur son he is a smart and brave boy. Put ur focus on him and take it off of ur husband. Ur son deserves it more. I\'ll keep u in my prayers.
Way to go on your boys part. Take care.
Kids love to have there parents proud. The heartbreak can be crippling, huh. The what if\'s are just as bad. Hang in there friend - Larry