10/05/07The stress and tension of my H daughter living with us is starting to affeet us.  I try to communicate things to my H about things that really bother me ,but instead of being a partner, he gets angry with me.  He says that I am too dramatic for him, and I complain too much for him.  He is insinuating that I am not for him which is not good for my security after last year that was his reasons for having his affair and leaving me.  It wouldnt be so bad with the daughter ,I think, if she wasnt the encourager and supporter of my H leaving me last year,along with his ex wife (her mom).  She is constantly testing her limits and trying to put wedge in the marriage. My H admits a little but for most part puts a blind eye to it ,anything to avoid confrontations.  I have been feeling very lonely last couple of months ,I find myself fantasizing about someone rescueing me,,a hero.  This whole year has been a lot of pain for me ,the heartache still returns consantly.  I feel my husband thinks he has leverage because he has someone who wants him in the background. All I know is that I havent been truly happy for a year now.  My H even insinuates that I am not an easy person to get along with ,hes always jabbing at me,,I cant imagine in time that will get better. what to do?    i dont know