So, we move out in 2 weeks, havent found a home, the prices are too high and nothing but crap out there. I feel the resentment building towards my husband. He pushed this selling of my condo too hard and fast on me. All during a time that I was just cheated on and about to be left for by him, and got laid off from my job after 16 yrs with the company. I am trying to get back into the work force and find my thing ,its been hard but to add to that pressure we have NO home now. I have an 8 yr old boy who is displaced too. We were content in our condo community. The resentment builds as I tell you that my husbands EX wife no longer wants the responsibility of their 17 yr old daughter, who became too much for her to handle. This is the same EX wife and daughter who were in on the affair conspiracy for my husband and their long time friend (also married) to be together. I kinda feel taken advantage of and taken for granted. My husband stated how his EX is not a good example on their daughter. That she is too self absorbed and doesnt get involved in their daughters school reports or take her to dentist/dr appts. He states how we could be more caring and involved in the daughter's life and turn her around this last year before shes 18. My husband used his daughter as a buddy/sound board when he was annoyed or argueing with me. This has obviously built major issues/tension that he seems to think will just disappear. I have alot of anxiety building in anticipation for the day. I feel confused on how the 3 of them were bashing me and secretly building his new life with the other woman ,like I was the lower,evil person. Yet now he can say that I am the better example. She is to move in as soon as we find a house, so much for the honeymoon phase of working things out. He also told the EX she does not have to pay us child support. I was doing well getting past the affair but lately I have been having ALOT of flashbacks of how he told the OW he loved her and how he told all the guys at work he was leaving me and had a girlfriend. That affair was no joke and it was no fantasy, it was REAL!!! I feel sorry for myself again and wish I felt that I was better than this, what he did was absolutely unforgiveable and yet here I am making sacrifices to accomodate his happiness. Feeling betrayed and sad.