Husband called from work today and apologized for calling me the C word last night. I apologized back too and we are doing what we usually do--pretending all is well/good. And continue our life like nothing happened. Do all couples go through this cycle?

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Yes, I\'m going through the same cycle w/my husband. One day we are nice to eachother and the next we are having a nasty argument and I\'m bringing up all the details of the affair and what it\'s done to me. It\'s been 2 months since I found out about the affair and I\'m wondering if I should quit bringing it up already. I mean truly, how long can I go on badgering and beating him over the head. It\'s not helping me by doing that...it\'s just keeping me stuck in my misery.