Well my husband has let me down again. While I am down here crying and upset, he is upstairs watching TV in our room ,laughing hard from his gut at the show. He is not phased, in the least, on how upset I am.
5 months ago he was having an affair saying he loved this OW and told me he was leaving. This OW was conspired from his teenage daughter,whom he turned against me, his daughter disowned me when dad chose to stay with me. She and his EX wife moved to VA around the same time. He has not fixed the errors of his ways ,and allows his daughter to disrespect me and my son, she does not say thankyou for her cards/gifts we send her and he doesnt force her to either. Well, while repairing our marriage ,which he thinks is all perfect and needs no mending, he has insisted we buy a house. I own our condo and had it before we were married. This house will cost us triple the mortgage we have now. We do live and always live pay check to pay check. So, instead of prooving and sacrificing $ for this house ,,he has planned a getaway with his sister to drive down and see his daughter without me. This is only reinforcing that his daughter doesnt need to accept me and further more, he would spend lots of money on hotels and gas money and other expenses. Take some vaca time off from work that should be held for moving time. He seems so scattered in the brain. What is his priority? It seemed to be buying a house, since he practically gave me an ultimanum that if I dont get a house he will leave. Or should his priority be at least ME? not leaving me for a weekend and seperating his 2 lives ,,his daughter then me. That is so insulting to me. This is a critical time after the trauma I went thru of him cheating. And now he pulls this? I asked why the daughter cannot come here ,she is 17 yrs old ,,and can visit all the relatives while here,,and kids are the ones who travel to see their fathers. He just dismissed me and called me negative. He is turning it around so he can justify this by calling me CRAZY, negative and unreasonable. I am so fed up ,this is the last straw!
5 months ago he was having an affair saying he loved this OW and told me he was leaving. This OW was conspired from his teenage daughter,whom he turned against me, his daughter disowned me when dad chose to stay with me. She and his EX wife moved to VA around the same time. He has not fixed the errors of his ways ,and allows his daughter to disrespect me and my son, she does not say thankyou for her cards/gifts we send her and he doesnt force her to either. Well, while repairing our marriage ,which he thinks is all perfect and needs no mending, he has insisted we buy a house. I own our condo and had it before we were married. This house will cost us triple the mortgage we have now. We do live and always live pay check to pay check. So, instead of prooving and sacrificing $ for this house ,,he has planned a getaway with his sister to drive down and see his daughter without me. This is only reinforcing that his daughter doesnt need to accept me and further more, he would spend lots of money on hotels and gas money and other expenses. Take some vaca time off from work that should be held for moving time. He seems so scattered in the brain. What is his priority? It seemed to be buying a house, since he practically gave me an ultimanum that if I dont get a house he will leave. Or should his priority be at least ME? not leaving me for a weekend and seperating his 2 lives ,,his daughter then me. That is so insulting to me. This is a critical time after the trauma I went thru of him cheating. And now he pulls this? I asked why the daughter cannot come here ,she is 17 yrs old ,,and can visit all the relatives while here,,and kids are the ones who travel to see their fathers. He just dismissed me and called me negative. He is turning it around so he can justify this by calling me CRAZY, negative and unreasonable. I am so fed up ,this is the last straw!
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