Today, I changed the icon from bad to good. I really thought that I would have a hard time in creating my separation papers - but in all fairness, not a single tear was shed!!

I am not comfortable with the fact that I am getting a divorce - but I am happy that I will no longer be with my ex. I have lived for too long in an unhappy place and now know that I truly can change that for myself. I don't need a man to make me happy - I need a smile and a positive attitude!!

The nights are a little bit harder to deal with still, but with time and with some help from others in a similar position - I know I will get through this.