I am so unsure about the marriage I had. I am constantly being given new reasons why this marriage ended - I am really pissed off about it.
The latest reason I was given was that the work I did over the past year was what made my marriage fail - how stupid is that??? I just don't understand how the reasoning can constantly be changing from his side - I honestly believe that it is only to make me feel worse about myself.
The latest reason I was given was that the work I did over the past year was what made my marriage fail - how stupid is that??? I just don't understand how the reasoning can constantly be changing from his side - I honestly believe that it is only to make me feel worse about myself.
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Last night was really hard for me. I talked with the STBX about the separation papers and how we will split everything. He was calm, cool and collected, whereas I was a nervous reck! We talked for almost 2 hours and we agreed on most things.
However, I went to bed crying my eyes out thinking about how this ended up in the gutter. He know tells me that our relationship was always a joke and that he should never have been with me in the first place! OMG - how do you deal with that, I feel completely worthless now.
you are not worthless, he is the worthless one. My STBX always told me that I would never find another woman because I wasn\'t a realprize in the first place. It\'s their way of making themselves feel so much better and superior to the other person. Hang in there girl and know that we are here for you