it is impossible to talk to my ex about our daughter. he is constantly irrational, and he lets his wife run the show with her jealousy.i can let go, and expect only one day a week from him for visitation. i mean at least i get child support taken directly from his check. i just had wished we could do this together. i do mean his wife as well. but they never wanted to give that a chance. they never! think about the kids. (our 2 yr old daughter and his 8 yr old son)