so alot of you are asking and woundering why my brother is still allowed around me. so i thought id take this time out of my o so busy day (ha not!!) and try to explain it to you through the best of my knowledge and understanding. I don't think my parents (mom mainly) see him as a danger to me. Both my brothers were found not guilty so i guess in their eyes that proves that they are harmless. My mom also feels that she can not be mad at Mason and keep him out of her life. He is in the army and this was all going on when he was over in Iraq. So she was scared that she would be angry with him and something would happen and she would just feel horrible. I think she thought i was asking her to stop loving him and remove him from her life for good. But i never asked that of her. And i never will. That's just not the type of person i am and that makes me mad to think she would think that. I would never tell her to stop loving her son, or to remove him from her life. All i asked was for him not to live with us when he got back. For him to just stay at a relitives place. Did he? Hell no! She promised me he would just stay here for 2 weeks at the most and she'd make him find a job and get a place...did that happen? No! idk how long he stayed here to me it seems like months but i think it was only like 3 weeks maybe 4. But anyway's srry got a lil off track there. They also went through the counseling that the court asked them to and so that makes them all better too. But the main one the one that i think really is the reason why he is still allowed here is because she doesn't believe me. She doesn't think what i said really happend!!! Even though she was abused by her cousin as well she doesn't believe me. She say's that it was just prolly two kids just be courious of each other. But my mom not believeing me is a whole nother story that ill have to tell you some other time. So that's kind of how i see it and understand it. My dad just kind of goes along with it all. idk if he believes me or not but he's alway's backed up whatever i wanted. No questions asked.