why does abuse happen? why does it happen to some people and not others? was it really the victums fault? ( i don't believe it is) so how does god choose who get's abused and who doesn't? people say things happen for a reason....what's the reason of all these people getting abused every day? how does that make them a better persone? how does it help other people? how are people able to do this to eachother? how can they sit there and hurt someone they know, care about, or don't even know go through so much pain? do they have pain? do they feel? do they care what their doing to them? do they have nightmares or flashbacks? do they get help? i don't ever seem the abuser going and getting help, i don't ever seem them feeling bad for what they did. why do the victums carrie so much guilt so much pain. why do we have to go through years of therapy? why do our lives get taken away?
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oh hun.
i wish upon wish i had answers.i really wished i did.all i know is that what happen to yuu was BEHOND wrong.you are a beautiful and amazing person....i love you.
i\'m here for you.
asking this myself... every day.
I don\'t know. I do know it wasn\'t the victim\'s fault, something was done TO them, not BY them. But people do seem to want to blame themselves for being victimized, I don\'t know why. Maybe being a victim is so frightening that it\'s actually less scary to blame yourself -- at least them there is a reason for the unreasonable. Wish I could say something to explain it all and help you, but I just don\'t know. (((HUG)))
It\'s not your fault. I wish I knew all the answers...but I think the Devil wanders this Earth and entices people to do evil things.