idk what to do anymore. i know you guy's keep saying to talk with god and that he's alway's here with me and so is my guarding angel but i'm starting not to believe that. i mean over the year's i've been loosing faith in god because i don't understand why this is all happening. i don't understand why he would put so much hurt on someone and why there are so many of us that are hurting and it doesn't seem like he's doing anything. i know everything happen's for a reason and i believe that but i hate not knowing what that reason is and i don't understand why we can't know it. i don't understand why god would put people through so much pain. i know it make's us stronger and whatever but why is it alway's something so close to our hearts? idk if i want to be living any more. i'm never happy anymore and i've shut down in counseling so we took a month off so now i don't see her for a month. people are dieing around me, no one seem's to understand or want's to take the time to understand what i'm going through and how i'm feeling and i'm sick of all this. i'm sick of doing everything myself. i'm a fucking teenager NOT an adult and that's what i'm being treated like. i can't do this anymore, i don't want to do this anymore.
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no no sweetie. you CAN get through this. things will get better unless you give up. in the bible it says that you are suppose to doubt and question God...it means that you are thinking of him. you\'re right all things do happen for a reason. i believe that God gives you the choices and whatever you decide determines if you fail or succeed. he can\'t choose for you...he gave you life to live and try and occassionally fail. he wants you to fall but he also wants you to get back up on your own...he doesn\'t want to pick you up everytime. he is testing you right now. are you gonna give up and fail or are you gonna get back up and get through this...cuz i knwo you can....and so does God. well take care sweetie and God Bless!
Kayla, God is perfect love, and God is always. I believe that before we incarnate into this life, we make a contract with God to expereince certain things. Those are the experiences that we need in order to progress. It\'s our duty to progress to a higher goodness. While we\'re making this contract in a safe place, the difficulties and pain seem easy because we\'re not recognizing them to the degree that they may affect us. But, God never allows us more than what we can handle because God is love and God knows within perfection what each of us can handle. You are obviously strong! Remember that, and never doubt God. You can do this, and you must, because if you don\'t, you\'ll be faced with these same difficulties all over again until you do. You will have learned many things after overcoming these difficulties, and your faith in God will be unshakable! God bless you honey.
Kayla, hang in there. You are forgetting what is and has been good in your life. It seems so gloomy, because you are ONLY focusing on the bad. Im sure you had plenty of good that I dont even know about. And what I DO know about is some good things. Like all your school friends, your school sports, you have a car, you have a room with good stuff in it, you have a computer, you have this whole site of people LOVING YOU, you have a job with friends there, you have gone to camp, your dad is wonderful!!!! Your mom may be a pain, but she LOVES YOU! You are healthy, you are beautiful, you are capable of anything you set your heart on! You have your whole future in front of you. You are a little adult, so you are safe now, because YOU can NOT ALLOW anyone to hurt you anymore. You have pretty clothes to wear everyday! There is a LOT OF GOOD mixed in there. Try to think about that!
REMEMBER TOO that God makes people, and PEOPLE make choices. God isn\'t reponsible for what any of us do or dont do. These are OUR lessons to work through however we choose. God didn\'t make or allow Mason to hurt you. Mason chose that. Now god has placed before you, every tool you need to work through this damage, and come out the other side healed and as whole as you can help yourself to become. YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE TO USE THE TOOLS PROVIDED! (therapy, friends, prayer, writing, sexual abuse support groups, etc....) So please KAYLA, dont give up. CHOOSE TO LIVE! Decide you wont feel like the victim anymore! Decide you are taking control of this mission, and you will do whatever you can to beat Mason, and any damage he has caused you. I KNOW YOU CAN! You may be small, but your will is HUGE, and you have STRENGTH!!!! I love you girlie!!!