so my mom and i got into a fight over the counselor. and i know she's not what i expected but i am gonna give her a try. i think i will prolly end up likeing her.
my mom just doen't really understand anything, well that's the way it seems. she say's she does but she doesn't show it very well, and i know she's not the type to show things but idk. i just basicly told her how i felt. i told her that i felt that it seemed that she didn't care and didn't understand and that she just picked someone and was like here ya go. and she was like no i didn't i've been trying to find someone. and i said no you havent and she said she had. and then i asked her why it took this long to get one and she said that she had to find one that had insureance and then i just didn't talk and she left and then i was gonna leave but my dad was like what's going on and so i told him and then my mom can back in with the paper my school counselor gave me and was like here you find one you want and held out her hand and my dad was like just everyone calm down and my mom was like i'm trying but everything i do is wrong and she threw the paper at my dad and he just opend it up and looked at it and my mom just said that she was sorry that she can't find somone i want but that they don't make the kind of money to just go and pay for one that we need to have the insurance and stuff and i know that i understand but idk. so i didn't talk i just let her and then i left once she was done and my dad was like kayla your mother and i will talk this over and figure something out.
GRRRR......
so i just called and friend and she came and picked me up and we drove around and i talked to her about it and i feel a lil better now about it but idk.
my mom just doen't really understand anything, well that's the way it seems. she say's she does but she doesn't show it very well, and i know she's not the type to show things but idk. i just basicly told her how i felt. i told her that i felt that it seemed that she didn't care and didn't understand and that she just picked someone and was like here ya go. and she was like no i didn't i've been trying to find someone. and i said no you havent and she said she had. and then i asked her why it took this long to get one and she said that she had to find one that had insureance and then i just didn't talk and she left and then i was gonna leave but my dad was like what's going on and so i told him and then my mom can back in with the paper my school counselor gave me and was like here you find one you want and held out her hand and my dad was like just everyone calm down and my mom was like i'm trying but everything i do is wrong and she threw the paper at my dad and he just opend it up and looked at it and my mom just said that she was sorry that she can't find somone i want but that they don't make the kind of money to just go and pay for one that we need to have the insurance and stuff and i know that i understand but idk. so i didn't talk i just let her and then i left once she was done and my dad was like kayla your mother and i will talk this over and figure something out.
GRRRR......
so i just called and friend and she came and picked me up and we drove around and i talked to her about it and i feel a lil better now about it but idk.
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Maybe even explain it to the person you are going to see. As every counsellor will say to you, you have a right to pick and choose. And if she\'s onto it she will even tell you, who you could see that will be insured. But don\'t fret just at least give it a go and you never know you may feel comfortable. I think your mum should have given you more imput into the situation seeing as this is your life. My parents don\'t know about me and I don\'t tell them as they would spin out, because I have a son, their grandson. So be grateful you have your mum there. You will need her in times of need.
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