5-24-08
I have my girls this weekend and it should be fun right, it is except my oldest looks like her mother and my youngest keeps bring things up like remember when you and mommy this and you mommy that. It really makes me miss her. If there not talking about her they are talking about Brad( thats her new boyfriend. I am so pissed off about that the fact that I dont care if it did happen after she said here intentions it still feels like she left me for him. Hell hes looking at appartments in the area. Im not happy at all about this I do good when the kids are not around as a constent reminder of what was I wish that I had someone to talk to
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hang in there I know its hard I\'m sorry she don\'t understand its not a good thing to involved the kids with her new guy, mine is also dating and it drove me nuts...but I\'m at the point now where I don\'t care (she\'ll find out how good I was) but now I feel its too late for us, you will make it thru this.
it takes time ( lots!!) I still find times it hurts, but try just to enjoy you time with your kids and make it the best you can with them, enjoy them don\'t think of her, if they start to talk about her or the dude change the subject they are kids they are not aware how hurtful what she\'s done to you, they just want to know daddy is there for them and loves them!!
no mater what make sure they feel that!! you be fine and when you have the love of your kids it will help with the pain..it won\'t take it away but it helps
remember Time... it will take time hold your head high and smile when your with them...
the best revenge is living a great life!!
and you will!! take it one day at a time, there\'s someone out there that will appreciate you and all you have to give... I\'ve been where you are and I know what your feeling I still have a way to go but I have my kids and good friends I\'ll make it and so will you...now go take them kids for some Ice cream and enjoy them...ha ha ....take care
Jeff
Ihate the fact that they are out there living life acting like they are happy and content when we are struggling and sad. Ya know? It sucks big time. I hope that you will find peace very soon. I\'m getting there, but I still have a little ways to go myself. Memories kill me. Never hesitate to contact me when ya need someone to talk to.