Well, things just got worse... I am so done with my husband.  Last night was the third night in like a week and a half where I have no clue where he was all night long, he ignored my calls, etc.  Actually, this is kind of a relief to me because I know that I cannot spend the rest of my life with him and just didnt know how to get away once and for all.  That just did it for me.  I know he is seeing someone else and that's fine with me now.  NOW I have the reason I was looking for to cut my ties with him once and for all.  He can run that tree business by himself.  Let him answer the phones and deal with the customers bitching at him...he can't handle that shit. I hate to wish bad upon people - but now I truly wish that his business would fold up just to prove that he NEEDED me to run it for him.  I frickin hate his guts.  I hope she was worth it because there's no turning back for me.  I am bound and determined to make today a good day, despite the fact that my kids hate me, my husband is a big fat asshole and now I have to find a job again to make ends meet...not to mention I have no vehicle now. OH WELL The dumbass is out of my life...things can only get better from here.