My days are just getting worse...Last night I had to call the cops on my 14-year-old daughter because she refused to come home - and was out with her 17-year-old boyfriend...she actually toldme on the phone that she didnt care what I said - she wasnt coming home and to go ahead and call the police - so I did...and I filed unruly charges. She showed up today and I called the cops after getting into a screaming match with her - they came and picked her up...what a joke...then they call and tell me that I have to go pick her up? I dont get it. Anyway, my 19year old step-daughter is picking her up right now. I can't take much more. I see my daughter following in my footsteps. She is dating a very possessive boy and I am putting a stop to it and that's what she doesnt like. I dont care who hates me anymore..I am doing whatever it takes to keep him away from her. I cried most of the day, trying to understand what the hell has happened to my life and my children. I can't do this much longer. I honestly cant put up with much more or I am going to totally lose it. Not to mention the fact that I called my STBX and left a message, telling him I feel that he needs to pay my rent for me since I was working just as hard as he was for the family business and just because now I will not be with him after his two long nights out this week and his nasty attitude towards me - I at least earned him enough money to pay my rent. Of course, he hasnt called me back, so I have no clue what I am gonna do. I cant take much more I honestly cant.
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I am so sorry to hear u had such a bad couple days - I dont have kids so I am no help in that area...U are doing what u think is best for her in the long run....it takes a great amount of love and strength to do what ur doing- I am proud of u and hopefully one day ur daughter will understand y u r doing this....