Here it is .. noontime...Sitting here trying to concentrate on work and doing my web courses online, but all I can think about is why me?? I don't seem to have a problem with making someone love me....its KEEPING them loving me that is the problem. I can no longer blame everyone else. .It's just got to be me..
I do feel a little better, as I feel like I have made some new friends who have a lot in common with me. We are all grieving the loss of a relationship and trying to move on. I know this will happen eventually, just wish I could jump ahead 6 months and see if I am any better...?
I do feel a little better, as I feel like I have made some new friends who have a lot in common with me. We are all grieving the loss of a relationship and trying to move on. I know this will happen eventually, just wish I could jump ahead 6 months and see if I am any better...?
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Please don\'t blame yourslef I can totally understand how easy it is to let people make you believe it is something wrong with you and when you reflect on past relationships it is even easier to fall into that but I think it is more the type of people we tend to find, is there a common trait? I know I felt really bad when my STB X started telling me oh you will fiund someone new and the mistakes you have have made in the past will only make you that much better in the future. So I am the problem huh? Well like you said there are some really good friends here that will help.
once again...i feel the exact way. I guees we just have to stay strong and wait...im here for you!!!
Just remember you are not alone.... Eventually, down the road we will all be focus on more pressing issues such as which pair of shoes will look great on this dress... :-) Keep your head up! I\'m here for u!